For instance, you might wear a red dress, a red blazer, or a red top or shirt. You could also wear a pop of red, such as a scarf or tie.
Try on all of your clothes in your closet to figure out which outfits look best on you. Then, designate these clothes for when you’re hoping to get a guy to talk to you.
For example, you might wear an off the shoulder top that covers your cleavage but bares your entire shoulder and neck area. As another option, wear a tank top that has thin straps. You might not be able to do this while you’re at school, and that’s okay! Always follow the rules so you don’t get in trouble.
For instance, you might wear foundation, concealer, powder, blush, subtle eyeshadow, eyeliner on your top eyelashes, mascara on your top eyelashes, and a nude or berry lipstick. If you’re going to school, only wear makeup if it’s allowed in your school’s dress code.
Ask your hairstylist how to keep up your hairstyle. Look at pictures in magazines and online to get inspiration for your hairstyle.
Don’t make eye contact for longer than 1-3 seconds because he might feel like you’re staring. If making eye contact is hard for you, practice by staring at your own eyes in the mirror. Then, make eye contact with people you care about, like friends and relatives. It’ll get easier with practice!
If you’re at school, try to look like you’re always having fun at lunch or between classes. For instance, tell funny stories with your friends or talk about your favorite TV shows. Practice smiling and laughing to make it easier for you to do it when you’re trying to get a guy’s attention.
Film yourself playing with your hair so you can see what looks most attractive. You don’t need to play with your hair all of the time. In fact, that might make you seem nervous. Just do it for about 5-10 seconds to subtly flirt.
For instance, let’s say you’re getting a drink at a bar and see a hot guy a few seats down. You could lean against the bar and give him a wink to show him you’re interested in talking. If you’re in school, you might cross paths with him in the hallway and give him a wink.
Don’t be super obvious by touching your breasts or bum. Similarly, don’t rub yourself, which might look weird. Instead, lightly touch yourself for 2-3 seconds or run your fingers along your skin.
For instance, brush past him as you walk down the hallway at school or towards the counter at a coffee shop. As another option, you could choose the seat behind or next to him. Then, lightly touch him as you sit down. Since you don’t want to talk to him, it’s best not to bump into him too hard.
For example, let’s say you and your friend are at a party. While you’re chatting, face the room instead of each other. This way guys will feel comfortable walking up to you.
This works best if you’re sitting on a high stool, but you can also do it in a regular chair.
It’s okay to check your phone occasionally. However, don’t focus all of your attention on your phone.
For instance, let’s say you’re at a party. You might act like you’re having trouble opening your drink. Similarly, you could act like you’re having trouble reaching a high object. At school, you might act like you need help with an assignment. Don’t feel like you have to do this if you don’t feel comfortable acting like you need help when you don’t. Guys will be just as into you!
